520读懂爱、表达爱：一份关于“爱”的成长书单

这一阶段的“爱”，是从向内探索、向内扎根开始的。对于低年级的孩子而言，最珍贵的“爱”是学会全然地接纳自我，像呵护小芽一样去珍视自己最真实的独特。这种源于心底的笃定与安全感 ，将成为他们未来自信走向世界、包容他人的最初底气。

作者：[法] 法妮·迪卡塞

出版社：新疆青少年出版社

ISBN：9787559089465

UOI关联：“爱自己”是所有关爱的起点和基石，学会接纳并珍视每一个个体独特的特质与光芒。

推荐理由：这是一本温暖的治愈型图画书，讲述了一只小老鼠由自卑到自信的成长故事。通过小老鼠的成长转变，揭示了美丽和友谊的真谛：每个人身上都有光，要看到自己身上的光，也要看到那些珍惜、陪伴自己的朋友。这也是一份礼物，给自己，给自己珍惜的人，给珍惜自己的人。

作者：[英] 山姆·麦克布雷尼 文 / 安妮塔·婕朗 图

出版社：明天出版社

ISBN：9787533258092

UOI关联：学习如何将抽象的“爱”转化为可感知的空间、距离或动作，提升初级的情感表达能力与沟通素养。

推荐理由：整个作品充溢着爱的气氛和快乐的童趣，小兔子亲切可爱的形象、两只兔子相互较劲的故事构架以及形象、新奇的细节设置都对孩子有着极大的吸引力。

作者：Rachel Bright (Author)

出版社：New York : Farrar Straus Giroux, 2014

ISBN：9780374346461

UOI关联：Explore how to overcome prejudices and build a sense of psychological security when facing external differences.

推荐理由：Love Monster wants to belong with the cuddly residents of Cutesville. But as it turns out, it's hard to fit in with the cute and the fluffy when you're a googly-eyed monster. And so, Love Monster sets out to find someone who will love him just the way he is. His journey is not easy―he looks high, low, and even middle-ish. But as he soon finds out, love can find you when you least expect it.

随着步入更广阔的校园与社会公共空间，中年级孩子将“爱”开始延伸至人际的舒展。我们引导孩子在与同伴的日常相处中发展同理心——理解他人不仅是单向的释放善意，更是在真挚的友谊往来中，学会建立并守住彼此尊重的清晰边界。这是小探究者迈向健康社交与卓越情商的必经之路。

作者：(美)艾诺·洛贝尔

出版社：明天出版社

ISBN：9787533260897

UOI关联：引导学生探讨同伴关系中的差异与互补、包容与支持，理解真挚的友谊是如何在日常点滴中滋养心灵并建立尊重边界的。

推荐理由：作者洛贝尔运用日常生活中最平凡的场景及生活点滴，通过想象的魔力，直接带领读者打开神奇的幸福宝藏，品味最美丽、最真挚的友谊。没有严肃的教条味，也没有沉重的批判思考，满满是至真至情，挑动读者内心深处最原始而纯真的感动。

作者：[美] 派翠西亚·波拉蔻

出版社：广西师范大学出版社

ISBN：9787559820730

UOI关联：引导探究师生之间的情感连接，理解同理心与专业支持如何帮助个体克服成长中的局限。

推荐理由：虽然童年总被人们称为一段难以重返的黄金岁月，但它并不是无忧无虑的，每个孩子都会经历成长的痛苦和心灵成长的艰难，这时就需要福柯老师一样的大人站在孩子身旁，帮助他们找到虽然布满荆棘但却能使他们坚强成长的人生道路。

作者：(美)乔治·塞尔登 著 / (美)盖斯·威廉姆斯 插画

出版社：二十一世纪出版社

ISBN：9787539189437

UOI关联：不同背景的个体如何通过情感的纽带建立信任，探讨文化作为情感媒介在改善社区环境中的凝聚力量

推荐理由：一只蟋蟀、一只老鼠和一只猫咪之间的真挚友情足以温暖这个冰冷的世界。任何读过这本书的人，无论孩子还是成人，都会永远记得那只叫做柴斯特的蟋蟀，记住那嘹亮而韵律无穷的鸣叫。

作者：Jessie Sima (Author, Illustrator)

出版社：Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers

ISBN：9781481496773

UOI关联：理解抽象概念“爱”的多维表达，理解“爱”隐藏在最日常的归属与陪伴之中

推荐理由：When a small robot named Z discovers a message in a bottle signed “Love, Beatrice,” they decide to find out what “love” means. Unable to get an answer from the other robots, they leave to embark on an adventure that will lead them to Beatrice—and back home again, where love was hiding all along.

作者：Carter Goodrich (Author, Illustrator)

出版社：Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers

ISBN：9781534400900

UOI关联：Learn how to break the ice and show care to others while respecting personal boundaries

推荐理由：Hank is the prickliest cactus in the entire world. He sits in a pot in a window that faces the empty desert, which is just how he likes it. So, when all manner of creatures—from tumbleweed to lizard to owl—come to disturb his peace, Hank is annoyed.He doesn’t like noise, he doesn’t like rowdiness, and definitely does not like hugs.But the thing is, no one is offering one. Who would want to hug a plant so mean? Hank is beginning to discover that being alone can be, well, lonely.So he comes up with a plan to get the one thing he thought he would never need: a hug from a friend.

站在童年与少年交织的成长节点，高年级孩子眼中的“爱”，拥有了更加宏大的格局。“爱”已不再停留于个人的情感体验，而是升华为一种面向未来的守护力量——去深刻理解权利的含义、去勇敢捍卫社会的公平。用同理心体察世界，用切实的行动去改善周边环境，这是“懂得关爱”最高阶的表达，也是一个小小国际公民的责任与远见。

作者：[美]谢尔·希尔弗斯坦

出版社：北京联合出版公司

ISBN：9787559612700

UOI关联：引导学生批判性地思考人类与自然之间长期存在的“施与受”，探讨如何用负责任的“行动”去改善和回馈我们的生存环境。

推荐理由：这是一个由一个男孩和一棵爱他的树组成的动人故事，也是一则令人心醒动容的寓言，作品中的大树和男孩之间，有“付出”与“索取”的关系，“爱”与“被爱”的关系，还有“施”与“受”等哲学意义上的关系，让孩子在施与受，爱与被爱之间理解爱的真谛。

作者：[意]埃德蒙多•德•亚米契斯

出版社：译林出版社

ISBN：9787544768580

UOI关联：引导学生分析“小我之爱”如何凝聚、升华为宏大的“大我之爱”。

推荐理由：采用日记的形式，以孩子的口吻、孩子的笔触来记录四年级小学生安利柯身边发生的各式各样的感人小故事。书中每一章、每一节都把“爱”表现得淋漓尽致，大至对国家、社会、民族的大我之爱，小至对父母、师长、朋友的小我之爱，处处扣人心弦，感人肺腑。

作者：Malala Yousafzai (Author), Kerascoët (Illustrator)

出版社：Little, Brown Books for Young Readers

ISBN：9780316319577

UOI关联：It focuses on children’s right to education, helping students learn to care for others, embrace inclusiveness and pass on kindness, and truly understand what love and responsibility mean to every child.

推荐理由：This heartfelt story tells Malala’s sincere wish for equal education for all children. It helps kids learn about children’s basic rights, understand the dreams and difficulties of peers around the world, and feel the power of kindness and warmth. Perfect for the theme of understanding love and expressing love, it guides young readers to cherish what they have, care for others and pass on sincere kindness to everyone.

作者：Cartoon Saloon and Melusine Aircraft Pictures (Adapter), Nora Twomey (Adapter), Deborah Ellis (Author)

出版社：Groundwood Books

ISBN：9781773061184

UOI关联：It shows children’s right to live safely and get educated in tough situations, helping students know more about children’s rights and fit in with the reading theme of feeling love and spreading kindness.

推荐理由：The story tells of Parvana, an Afghan girl who disguises herself as a boy to support her family amid harsh circumstances. As caregivers, senior students can develop profound empathy through this book, witness the lack of basic living conditions and the right to education among peers in war-torn regions, and comprehend the significance of safeguarding peace and equality.

作者：Linda Sue Park (Author)

出版社：Clarion Books

ISBN：978-0547577319

UOI关联：How can we extend our care across borders and put humanistic compassion into practice through social services and practical actions.

推荐理由：Adapted from a true story and told through a dual-narrative structure, this book depicts the survival struggles of Sudan's "Lost Boys" and the daily routine of young African girls fetching water early in the morning. It enables fifth-grade students to reflect profoundly: behind the clean water sources we take for granted, how can care transcend national borders, and how can social services safeguard the basic rights to life?