During the lecture, Ms. Chen Mo began by addressing the growth environment and painted a psychological portrait of modern urban children. She pointed out that although children are fully satisfied in terms of material conditions, they often feel lonely inside. This loneliness does not stem from a lack of care but from the heavy emotional burden they bear under the high expectations from their families and schools. Children long to be understood but often feel unable to reciprocate the love of their parents, leading to feelings of suppression and self-reproach.Moreover, children face unprecedented academic pressure. This pressure comes not only from the academic demands themselves but also from the projection of complex emotions from the adult world.
Subsequently, Ms. Chen Mo further explored the cognitive characteristics of urban children. She pointed out that modern children generally exhibit a phenomenon of "weak sense of reality." Due to a fast-paced lifestyle and limited real-life experiences, they lack the ability to handle practical matters. However, contemporary children have a high level of moral judgment and are capable of making rational assessments based on humanitarian principles.
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家长应鼓励孩子参与家务劳动，培养他们的现实感和统筹思维。同时，家长和教育者以更高的道德水准引导孩子，帮助他们树立正确的价值观。
Ms. Chen suggested that parents should encourage their children to participate in household chores to cultivate their sense of reality and develop their planning and coordination skills. At the same time, parents and educators should guide children with higher moral standards to help them establish correct values.
最后，活动特别设置了问答环节，家长们踊跃提问，就自己在教育过程中遇到的困惑与陈默老师进行了深入交流。陈老师以专业的视角和温暖的语言，为家长们提供了个性化的指导，现场气氛温馨而热烈。
Finally, the event featured a special Q&A session, where parents actively posed questions and engaged in in-depth discussions with Ms. Chen Mo about the challenges they encountered in the education process. With her professional insights and warm language, Ms. Chen provided personalized guidance to the parents, creating a warm and lively atmosphere at the venue.
活动结束后，X同学的家长感慨地说：“陈默老师的建议特别接地气，听完之后，我感觉自己对家庭教育更有信心了，也知道该怎么调整了。”H同学的家长也忍不住分享了自己的感受：“这是我第一次来到苏州美高这个新学校，从讲座的内容到现场的布置，每一个细节都能看出学校的认真和贴心。特别感谢学校给我们家长提供了这么好的学习机会。”
After the event, one parent said with emotion, "Teacher Chen Mo's suggestions are really down-to-earth. After listening to them, I feel more confident about family education and know how to make adjustments." Another parent couldn't help but share their feelings: "This is my first time coming to Living Word School Suzhou Campus, a new school. From the content of the lecture to the arrangement of the venue, every detail shows the school's seriousness and thoughtfulness. I am especially grateful to the school for providing us parents with such a great learning opportunity."
