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How Our Counselors Nurture Every Student at ISNS|ISNS心理辅导老师如何用心守护每一位学生

2026-02-04 09:04发布于广东

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International School Counsellors Week at ISNS

This week, ISNS proudly joins schools around the world in recognising International School Counsellors Week—a moment to acknowledge the essential, often unseen work our counsellors do every day to support students’ well-being, growth, and future pathways.


At ISNS, we don’t just teach—we nurture the whole child. In a world where academic pressure meets emotional growing pains, our Counseling Team is the quiet, steady anchor ensuring every student feels seen, heard, and empowered.


This International School Counsellors Week, we invite our community to step behind the scenes and discover how our counselors support students every day—often in ways that are deeply impactful, yet rarely visible.



What Does Emotional Safety Feel Like at School?

At ISNS, emotional safety is not an abstract idea. It is a living, breathing support system that students experience throughout the day—from the first greeting in the morning to the last reassuring conversation before heading home.

Here’s what that protection system can feel like from a student’s perspective:








7:45 AM









The day begins with a personal connection. Ms. Anne greets every Early Years child by name, offering a warm smile or a high-five at the playground gate. This simple, consistent ritual builds trust and belonging, quietly telling our youngest learners, “You are welcome here.”









10:30 AM









In an Upper PYP classroom, Ms. Nana brings Social-Emotional Learning to life through role-play. Students don’t just hear about conflict resolution—they practice it through stories and scenarios, gaining the language and confidence to navigate friendships.









1:00 PM









A safe space opens for middle school students. In Ms. Sophie’s small-group sessions, students share feelings of stress or overwhelm. They learn they are not alone—and begin building practical coping skills together.









2:30 PM









A high school student feels buried under deadlines, overwhelmed and anxious. Ms. Godkin listens, validates those feelings, and then works collaboratively with the student to break the challenge into manageable steps. Panic becomes a plan—and a life skill is strengthened.

We ensure every interaction is meaningful and every intervention is personalised. We have the time to truly see your child.



Behind the Care: The Professional Frameworks That Make It Work

This daily care is powered by intentional, research-informed systems designed to support every learner at their level.

Multi-Tiered System of Supports (MTSS)

MTSS acts as our strategic map for student well-being, ensuring support is proactive, targeted, and always accessible.


Tier 1 – For All Students

Universal prevention and growth. All students participate in proactive SEL lessons embedded in the curriculum, alongside whole-school initiatives such as Diversity Week and Anti-Bullying campaigns. A positive, inclusive school culture is built from the ground up.


Tier 2 – Targeted Support

Some students need additional reinforcement. Counselors offer small-group “skill-builder” sessions focused on areas such as stress management or social skills, along with gentle check-ins to address concerns early.


Tier 3 – Individualised Care

For students facing more significant challenges, we provide confidential one-on-one counselling, crisis intervention protocols, and close partnerships with families and external professionals. Clear referral systems ensure no student slips through the cracks.



More Than Prevention: A Culture of Respect and Advocacy

Beyond responding to issues, our counselors work proactively to cultivate a culture of kindness, courage, and responsibility.

Proactive Education:

Students learn to recognise, report, and reject bullying, understand the difference between conflict and harm, 

and become confident upstanders.


Clear Pathways to Help:

Multiple safe reporting channels are taught and reinforced so students know where—and how—to seek support.


Restorative Practices:

When harm occurs, the focus is on accountability, 

healing, and learning, restoring trust and safety within 

the community.



Building “Life Armor” Through Social-Emotional Learning

Guided by ISCA and CASEL frameworks, our counselling curriculum teaches essential human skills that last far beyond school.

School Adjustment:

Supporting new students to settle, connect, and belong

Empathy Development:

Fostering understanding 

and inclusion

Conflict Resolution:

Empowering students to solve challenges independently

Stress Management:

Building resilience and healthier exam seasons

Self-Esteem:

Encouraging confidence, courage, and risk-taking

Child Protection:

Teaching personal safety, boundaries, and self-advocacy

Bullying Prevention:

Promoting respectful, upstanding behaviour


These aren’t just lessons—they’re skills for life. Every SEL session, quiet reassurance, and coordinated intervention reinforces the ISNS promise:

“You’re seen. You matter.”



The Partnership Difference: It Takes a Village

Counseling at ISNS extends far beyond the counseling office.

Coaching Teachers:

Equipping educators with practical strategies for daily emotional and social support

 Empowering Parents:

Partnering through workshops such as Raising Resilient Teens and Healthy Friendships

Professional Growth:

Continuous upskilling through international conferences and best-practice sharing

 Child Protection Team:

Working alongside school leaders, student support teams, and external professionals to ensure every safeguarding concern is handled with care and precision



When we say “it takes a village,” we mean it—and we’ve built that village around every ISNS child.



University & Career Counselling: Looking Ahead

As students progress into the upper grades, counselling support expands to include University & Career Counselling (UCC). Working closely with the social-emotional counselling team, UCC counsellors guide students from Grade 6 to Grade 12 in exploring interests, selecting courses, and planning post-secondary pathways.


From subject choices and career exploration to university applications, testing, essays, interviews, and financial planning, the UCC team ensures students and families are informed, aligned, and supported through this important transition.

Importantly, the UCC team works hand-in-hand with the Social-Emotional Counsellors to support students through the emotional pressures of decision-making, academic stress, and major life transitions, ensuring students feel confident, informed, and supported at every stage.



Our Promise: Growing Future-Ready Humans

At ISNS, counselling is not divided into silos—it is a connected system of care that supports students emotionally, socially, academically, and directionally.

Every SEL lesson builds resilience.
Every university meeting builds clarity.
Every conversation builds confidence.


We are here—every day—

as part of your child’s village.



The ISNS Counselling Team


Social-Emotional Counselling Team

Anne Zhu

Lower PYP School 

Counselor (K2–G2)

Nana Xu

Upper PYP School

 Counselor (G3–G5)

Sophie Zhu

Head of Counseling & Middle School Counselor (G6–8)

Mary Ann Godkin

High School Counselor (G9–12)


University & Career Counselling (UCC) Team

Lisa Hackett

 University Counsellor

Eleanor Rao

University Counsellor

Together, this team forms a comprehensive, student-centered counselling network, ensuring every ISNS student is known, supported, and prepared—for school, for university, and for life.

#SchoolCounseling #StudentWellness #ISNSCommunity #ISNSPheonix #GoISNS

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ISNS 国际学校心理与升学辅导周

本周,ISNS 与全球众多学校一道,共同庆祝国际学校心理与升学辅导周。这是一个重要的时刻,让我们向辅导老师们每天为学生身心健康、成长发展与未来道路所付出的、常常默默无闻却至关重要的工作致以诚挚的感谢。


在 ISNS,我们不仅仅关注教学,更致力于滋养完整的孩子。在学业压力与情绪成长并行的世界里,我们的辅导团队始终如一地发挥着稳定而温柔的力量,确保每一位学生都能被看见、被倾听、被赋能。


值此国际学校心理辅导周之际,我们诚邀社区成员一同走进幕后,了解我们的心理辅导老师如何在日常点滴中支持学生——这些支持往往深远而有力,却并不总是显而易见。



在学校里,情绪安全是什么样的体验?

在 ISNS,情绪安全不是一个抽象概念,而是一套真实存在、持续运作的支持系统。学生从清晨踏入校园的第一声问候,到放学前那一次令人安心的交流,整天都能切身感受到这份支持。

以下是从学生视角出发,一天中情绪支持可能呈现的样子:








上午7:45 









一天从一份温暖的连接开始。Anne 老师在操场入口亲切地叫出每一位幼儿园孩子的名字,用微笑或击掌迎接他们。这个简单而持续的仪式,帮助孩子建立信任感与归属感,悄悄传递着一句话:“你在这里是被欢迎的。”









上午10:30









在小学高年级课堂上,Nana 老师通过角色扮演让社会情绪学习变得生动具体。学生不仅“听到”如何解决冲突,更在故事和情境中进行实践,逐步掌握应对友谊问题的语言与自信。









下午1:00









一处安全的空间为中学生敞开。在 Sophie 老师的小组活动中,学生分享压力与情绪负担,意识到自己并不孤单,并在彼此支持中学习实用的应对策略。









下午2:30









一名高中生被截止日期压得喘不过气,感到焦虑不安。Godkin 老师耐心倾听、认可学生的感受,并与学生一起将复杂的挑战拆解为可执行的步骤。恐慌逐渐转化为计划,一项重要的生活技能也在过程中得到强化。

我们确保每一次互动都具有意义、每一项支持都因人而异。因为我们有时间,真正看见你的孩子。



关怀背后:支撑一切运作的专业体系

这些日常的关怀,建立在有意识、以研究为基础的系统之上,确保每一位学生都能在适合自己的层级获得支持。

多层级支持系统(MTSS)

MTSS 是我们学生支持工作的战略框架,确保支持是前瞻性的、精准的,并始终可获得。


第一层级|面向所有学生

普遍性的预防与发展。所有学生都参与融入课程的社会情绪学习(SEL),同时结合全校性项目,如多元文化周、反欺凌倡议等,从根本上营造积极、包容的校园文化。


第二层级|针对性支持

部分学生需要额外的支持。心理辅导老师会开展小组“技能提升”课程,聚焦压力管理、社交技能等主题,并通过定期关怀式沟通,及早发现并解决问题。


第三层级|个别化支持

针对面临较大挑战的学生,我们提供一对一保密辅导、危机干预机制,并与家庭及校外专业人士紧密合作。清晰的转介流程,确保没有任何一位学生被忽视。



不止于预防:尊重与倡导的校园文化

除了应对问题,心理辅导老师更积极地推动一种充满善意、勇气与责任感的校园文化。

前瞻性教育:

帮助学生识别、报告并拒绝欺凌,理解冲突与伤害的区别,成为有勇气发声的“支持者”。


清晰的求助路径:

反复教授并强化多种安全的求助渠道,让学生清楚“向谁求助、如何求助”。


修复性实践:

当伤害发生时,关注责任、修复与成长,重建社区中的信任与安全感。



通过社会情绪学习,打造“人生护甲”

在 ISCA 与 CASEL 框架指导下,ISNS 的心理辅导课程教授的是超越校园的核心人生能力。

校园适应:

支持新生融入、建立连接与归属感

同理心发展:

培养理解与包容

冲突解决:

赋能学生独立应对挑战

 压力管理:

增强韧性,迎接更健康的考试季

自尊与自信:

鼓励勇气、尝试与成长

儿童保护:

学习个人安全、界限与自我倡导 

 反欺凌教育:

倡导尊重、正直的行为方式


这些不仅是课堂内容,更是终身受用的能力。每一次 SEL 课程、每一句温柔的安慰、每一次协同干预,都在不断强化 ISNS 的承诺:

“你被看见,你很重要。”



合作的力量:真正的“全村共育”

ISNS 的心理辅导工作,远不止于心理辅导办公室之内。

支持教师:

教师提供日常情绪与社交支持的实用策略

赋能家长:

通过《培养有韧性的青少年》《健康友谊》等家长工作坊携手合作

专业成长:

持续参与国际会议与最佳实践交流

儿童保护团队:

与学校管理层、学生支持团队及校外专业人士协作,严谨而温和地处理每一项安全事务



当我们说“养育一个孩子需要一个村庄”,在 ISNS,这个村庄是真实存在的。



大学与职业规划辅导:面向未来

随着学生进入高年级阶段,辅导支持进一步延伸至大学与职业规划辅导(UCC)。UCC 团队与社会情绪辅导团队密切合作,从六年级到十二年级,引导学生探索兴趣、选择课程,并规划未来发展方向。


从学科选择、职业探索,到大学申请、考试准备、文书写作、面试指导及财务规划,UCC 团队确保学生与家庭在这一关键阶段始终信息清晰、目标一致、支持到位。

尤为重要的是,UCC 团队与社会情绪辅导老师并肩合作,帮助学生应对决策压力、学业焦虑与人生转折期的情绪挑战,让学生在每一步都感到自信、安心、有支撑。



我们的承诺:培养面向未来的完整个体

在 ISNS,辅导不是割裂的模块,而是一套相互联结的支持体系,全面关注学生的情绪、社交、学业与发展方向。

每一堂 SEL 课,都是在培养韧性。

每一次大学辅导会谈,都是在建立清晰方向。
每一段真诚的对话,都是在增强自信。

我们始终在这里——

作为你孩子成长“村庄”的一部分。


ISNS 心理辅导团队


社会情绪心理辅导团队

Anne Zhu

小学低年级心理辅导老师(K2–G2)

Nana Xu

小学高年级心理辅导老师(G3–G5)

Sophie Zhu

辅导部主管 & 中学心理辅导老师(G6–8)

Mary Ann Godkin

高中心理辅导老师(G9–12)


大学与职业规划顾问(UCC)团队

Lisa Hackett

大学职业规划顾问老师

Eleanor Rao

大学职业规划顾问老师

这支团队共同构建了一个以学生为中心、覆盖全面的辅导支持网络,确保每一位 ISNS 学生都被了解、被支持,并为学校生活、大学阶段以及未来人生做好充分准备。

#SchoolCounseling #StudentWellness #ISNSCommunity #ISNSPheonix #GoISNS


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