Principal’s Graduation Message
Rocky Chen
Dear all, good morning. What will your answers be to my following question: Who you are?
In 1998, a HK action film called Who am I was released with the famous movie star Jackie Chan playing the lead, which aroused my curiosity. What followed the satisfactory sensory stimulation from watching the film was my rational thinking about Who I am. By then I was 32, working as a deputy researcher in Guangzhou Institute of Educational Research and an Assistant Principal of Huamei School. In the following days, the three questions about life from the Ancient Greek philosophers lingered around me, Who am I? Where do I come from? Where am I heading for? My graduates from Huamei, what are your answers to the above questions?
You may feel such questions tough. No one asked me such questions when I graduated with a master’s degree or with a bachelor degree, not to mention when I graduated from senior high school. Nevertheless, these questions have been somewhere in some form on the way. Anyway I thought about these questions till I was over 30, but I believe that it will do good to your life plan if you think about these questions earlier. We are of different ages, as senior high school students, you have already asked yourself about questions like what kind of person I am going to be? What kind of life I am going to lead? Where I am going to continue my study? What major I am going to choose? Which fields I am going to devote my time and develop myself? Thus, you’ve had preliminary answers to the above questions. But here is a reminder from me, the one who have gone through it all. You are going to live a long time, your thinking and action are all changing and advancing through the time, and to the beat of the era.
The earlier you get your answers to the three questions, the luckier you are. Back in 2003, I worked with dozens of teachers on starting the Huamei-Bond International College (offering Double Diplomas Program: Chinese High School Diploma and Canadian High School Diploma). Our team asked ourselves time and again about the three questions. Finally, we chose the team described in the famous Chinese classical novel The Journey to the West to be our idol. One of the leading role in this book-Tang Monk gives detailed answers to these questions. “I am a priest from the Tang country in the East, and I am going to the Western Heaven to get Buddhist scriptures.” Thus we embarked on our entrepreneurial journey.
Today you are going to say goodbye to Huamei and start your own journey to the West searching for your ” holy scriptures”. I hope you keep probing into the three questions. The three questions are like the three mountains surrounding Huamei School: Yinpai Ridges, Huolu Mountain and Phoenix Mountain, which represent not only your countable backers, but also the bumping road you will fight back and forth, to look for the truth, treasures and motivations in the future.
Before you pack your luggage, I have another three questions for you:
At this moment, what have you gained from Huamei? What have you established in huamei ? What will you take away with you from here?
Firstly, what have you gained from Huamei?
Your answer may be the double diplomas, the offers from university, ties with the teachers and friendship with your classmates, some good habits or qualities of how to get along with people and how to behave yourself in society. But I hope that above all these gains, more importantly, you get the determination to study for the prosperity of China or your country and for your own life-long happiness. That’s because, if you live only for yourself, you're prone to feel tired and confused easily, especially when you indulge yourself in some games that bring you nothing more than sensory stimulation, or some social activities that make you feel bored, when you feel frustrated or just lie flat without doing anything. As your individual ego grows smaller and your super ego grows bigger, the faith and pattern of studying for the prosperity of China and for your own life-long happiness will definitely lead you further.
Huamei hopes that you get the wisdom of “making leaps every single day” and establish the goal of being a future leader and do your utmost to showcase Huamei students’ profile: self-reliant, noble-minded, smart learners, world citizens, who is at the same time responsible and innovative.
Secondly, let’s reflect on what have you established in Huamei?
Your answer may be, you’ve made decisions on which country to go to, what major and university to continue your studies, you’ve made good friends, or even boyfriend or girlfriend, you’ve chose with whom you will go to the university together, or you have confirmed that you will no longer wrangle with your parents.
Huamei wishes more and broader with your establishments. For example, to set your life goal and even the image of your life partner, to find the fields and the things that you are passionate for, to confirm the belief that you have all the responsibility of your own maturity and development, to be convinced that however the external environment is changing and whatever challenges you have to weather, you have the ability to maintain an undisturbed mood/state of mind and respond with unwavering positive actions. To sum up, we wish you to develop yourselves to be “life-long learners with international perspective, and global elites with national and cultural identities”.
Last but not the least, let’s talk about what are you going to take away with you from here?
The old days are gone, and tomorrow is unpredictable. What matters the most is to ensure that everyone of you start a new journey with full preparation and happy mood.
You may say that you will take with you your successes and regrets in Huamei. Successful experiences make you more confident, while the unfulfilling wishes can be your motives in the future.
Today, I, on behalf of Huamei school, have prepared a luggage for you to take away.
I hope that you take with you gratitude. I hope that you are grateful to our great country and the Communist Party of China for this era they brought about to us,which is peaceful and full of opportunities.I hope that you take with you the faith of studying for the prosperity of China, the world and for your own life-long happiness to be your life compass;I hope that you take with you the goals you set for your life and a navigation system for your life; I hope that you take with you the mindset of innovation and creation.Most importantly,I hope that you take with you the firm faith of pursuing your own “ holy scriptures” in life to start your new journey.
An ancient Chinese poem goes like: If there is no north-south road outside the door, the world should be free from parting sorrow. Parting brings sad feelings and grief. At this moment of parting, I have an advice, a reminder and a hope for you.
I advise you to spend more time with your parents in this summer holiday. 40 years ago when I graduated from senior high school upon finishing the Gaokao, I went somewhere to play and refresh myself. My greatest regret is I didn’t spend more time with my parents and my classmates at that time. I realize later the period of time between senior high school graduation and the beginning of the next life stage is the only undisrupted/uninterrupted time we have to spend with our parents. The university time and your future job will overdraw your time and deprive you of the possible happiness of spending with your parents and even make you unable to fulfil your responsibility as a son/daughter. That’s why here I strongly advise you to spend more time with them in the coming month, cooking for them and accompanying them. Enjoy every beautiful moment of the holiday and get fully refreshed for the new journey.
Then I’d remind you that whatever your future position is, please always bear in mind the fate of your country, and try to make your own contribution to its prosperity. 2049 is the centenary year of the founding of the People's Republic of China,I look forward to your contributions to our country then.
One simple hope: please come back to Huamei often.
In 10 years, 2032, when you come back to meet the Alumni Ten-Year Appointment, Huamei would be happy to witness your growth.
In 20 years, 2042, when you come back to meet the Alumni Twenty-Year Appointment, Huamei would be happy to witness your success.
In 30 years, 2052, when you come back to meet the Alumni Thirty-Year Appointment, Huamei would be happy to witness your well-being (please take along your parents).
In 60 years, 2082, when you come back to meet the Alumni Sixty-Year Appointment,Huamei would be happy to witness your longevity .