Number 1
Some of you today will get special awards for being Caring, and that is a special honour that you should be so proud of. It means that you got the first bit right, the bit about “Always be nice to people…” Last week I just mentioned to you guys about the trays in the cafeteria, and how it takes the cleaners so long to stack them. You have no idea how proud it made me to see some of you this week spending your lunchtime to stack the trays from other people so that the cleaners could have an easier job. It took just a few seconds and maybe the cleaners didn’t even notice, but it means that other people exist in your heart, and that you can show love for someone you’ve never spoken to and who you don’t know. Look for different trays to stack every day. You’ll see that what you really stack is your own happiness.
Number 2
This is the tough one. No. It’s actually impossible for humans. Always be nice to people, EVEN WHEN THEY AREN’T NICE TO YOU. We learnt that some things just exist, like rocks. Some other things exist AND grow, like trees. Some things exist, grow and move, like animals. Some things exist and grow and move and think, like humans. But Grade 5 wants to be more than that. We look for those incredible things that make us much more than the 7 billion normal people who will stay humans and die humans. Those things we look for are the Good, the Beautiful, and the True. Number 2 is about being Good. To show love even to people who are rude to you is really the only sign that you are good. People who are only nice to the people they love are just ‘meh’.
Number 3
Always be nice to people, even when they aren’t nice to you. The people who are rude to you do not control who you are. You control you. This is what we learnt. Rude people always try to control you. They expect you to be rude back, but if you decide to be nice then you stop the circle of rudeness and you teach them a lesson. Stay in control. Always be nice. Especially to rude people. Someone might call you weak for being nice, or they will tell you to stand up for yourself, or that you can’t lose face. It's lies. Is it easy to be nice to someone when they are rude? You need to be strong to be nice.
Every time you be nice you will stack a new cafeteria tray, but in your heart. Every new tray makes you stronger, helps you stand up for yourself, and gives you face. Every day you should want people to be rude to you so you can show them your love. This is what Grade 5 has learnt. I hope they start to practice it in Grade 6.