ine老师先播放了美式经典纯爱电影《怦然心动》片段，引起妈妈们一起讨论什么是“早恋”，中国的早恋在美国是否存在，妈妈们分享了自己对孩子恋爱的看法。接下来，从“什么是早恋，为什么会有早恋，我们不应该做什么，我们应该怎么做”4个部分，家长课堂进行了干货内容的分享。

早恋是一个中国特有的词语，它的诞生有历史背景，中国的家长和老师们担心孩子在中考高考阶段备受压力、耽误学业，从而影响到升学和未来的发展。

孩子早恋一般分为爱慕型、好奇型、模仿型和补偿型，出于不同的心理需要，孩子会大胆尝试早恋这种深刻而亲密的人际关系。

社会上视早恋如洪水猛兽，因为早恋的危害是十分明显的，在身体健康、人际情感发展和学业发展等方面都会影响孩子，甚至青春期的孩子会因为无知而越轨犯罪，留下一生的污点。

为什么青少年会有早恋呢？青春期的孩子随着身心发展的自然规律，对异性产生兴趣，也会因为人际情感的需要而大胆追爱，更有家庭原因和社会文化大环境的影响，孩子们对于恋爱充满了期待和大胆的心态。

最后妈妈们围在一起，讨论了自家孩子经历的早恋事件，有教育学专家妈妈，有心理学专家妈妈；也有宽容温暖的妈妈，有严格要求的妈妈，大家贡献了不同的视角和方法，在场的妈妈们都从相似的养育经历中收获育儿启发。

喜悦的妈妈们在家长课堂的群里分享各自今日所得，将这份收获和感动带给更多今日不在场的妈妈们。

期待有更多感兴趣的父母来到我们的现场，参与我们下周的家长课堂！

Teacher Aline first played the clip of the American classic pure love movie "flipped", which caused the mothers to discuss what is "puppy love" and whether Chinese puppy love exists in the United States. Mothers shared their views on their children's love. Next, Aline shared 4 parts of the content "what is puppy love, why does it happen, what should we not do, and what should we do".

Puppy love is a unique term in China. It has a historical background. Chinese parents and teachers are worried that their children will be under pressure during the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, and puppy love will delay their studies, which will affect their further education and future development.

Children's puppy love is generally divided into admiration type, curiosity type, imitation type and compensation type. Out of different psychological needs, children will boldly try puppy love, the deep and intimate interpersonal relationship.

The society regards puppy love as a scourge, because the harm of puppy love is very obvious. It will affect children's physical health, interpersonal and emotional development, and academic development. Even adolescents will commit crimes because of ignorance, leaving a lifetime of stains.

Why do teenagers have puppy love? Adolescence are influenced by the natural laws of physical and mental development, and become interested in the opposite sex, and boldly pursue love because of the needs of interpersonal relationships. Moreover, due to family reasons and the influence of the social and cultural environment, children are full of expectations and bold ambitions for love.

In the end, mothers gathered together and discussed the puppy love incidents experienced by their children. There were mothers who were experts in education and mothers who were psychologists; there were mothers who were tolerant and warm, and mothers who had strict requirements. Mothers have gained parenting inspiration from similar parenting experiences.

The joyful mothers shared their gains today in the WeChat group of the parent class, and also brought this gain and touch to more mothers who were not present today.

Looking forward to more interested parents coming to our site and participating in our parent class next week!