论点节选：

Should girls and boys get beyond friend relationship before eighteen years old?

（一）

As a member of the opposing team, I believe that girls and boys should not get beyond friend relationship before 18 years old. My points will be focused on the maturity level of those who are under eighteen.

The first point I want to carry out is that do people under 18 years old really understand what is love?

• It is often confused and misinterpreted by the young girls and boys that the irressitible attraction of the homones between the girls and boys is the feeling of love.

• sometimes the misinterpretation can result in sour relationship, others might result in marriage. 

•   A fact is found that each year, 12 million girls are married before the age of 18. That is 23 girls every minute.

（二）

首先我们要定义友谊，现代汉语词典给出的释义是：朋友之间的情谊。罗杰斯对这种亲密性做了三点概括：能够向朋友表露自己的思想感情和内心秘密；对朋友充分信任，确信其“自我表白”将为朋友所尊重，不会轻易外泄或用于反对自己；限于被特殊评价的友谊关系中，即限于少数的密友或知己之间，并且每个人都需要。

友谊的范围广，程度深，就注定了超过友谊的关系绝大多数情况下是难以控制的，尤其是对于十八岁以内的青少年。青春期赋予了我们旺盛的精力、敏捷的思维和记忆力，正是增长知识、开发智力的黄金时期。相处融洽尚可，一旦出现矛盾，情绪处于波动状态一周恢复不过来，又浪费了一周的时间。不正常交往会导致注意力分散，耽误学习时间，影响青少年学习和进步。在心智不够成熟、不够理智时，男女之间应避免发生进一步的交往。